Several of my daughters' playgroups had helping daddies as well as helping mommies. We used a babysitting cooperative of parents when we went out; daddies were more likely to be the evening babysitter. The rest of the time we used our parents or my brothers. My daughter uses several young male actors as babysitters on the days I don't care for my grandson. I keep expecting Michael to say, "Go away, Grandma. I want Trevor or or Anthony."
My daughters had one male teacher in a one-room schoolhouse private school in Maine. On Long Island they only had two male teachers in grade school; one was their favorite teacher. My brother is a grade school teacher in Maine. He says male teachers of young children feel like everyone regards them as potential child molesters.
According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics.men comprise:
- 5.4 % of Child Care Workers
- 8.5 % of Teacher Assistants
- 2.7 % of Preschool and Kindergarten Teachers
One of my brother's worked in daycares for YEARS, and he is wonderful with small children. And I well remember how hurt he was by the automatic distrust of parents for him, just because he was a guy.
ReplyDeleteBut I also remember that a friend's six year old daughter was molested by her male brother. And so no, I would not hire a male babysitter.
I am sorry you feel that way. I must admit I don't fully understand, given that your brother was an excellent day care teacher. I know friends who were physically abused by their mothers, but that would not prevent me from using a female babysitter.
ReplyDeleteI would use a male sitter if I had kids. (Beck either sex can and do abuse.) I had three sons who all were trustworthy, and according to their charges over the years the best at finding anything fun to do. Doing your research and getting to know anyone you hire to care for kids has to be an ongoing act for parents these days.
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